Power Thought for February
“If you can design it, define it, and act on it, you will triumph.”
~ Author Unknown
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A Moment with Donna...
Chocolate Martini's
This past Saturday my friend Marcia and I were cruising through a local craft store preparing for some upcoming events that needed a creative touch. Once we decided we had everything we needed we headed to a cashier to pay for our purchases. Little did we know that we were soon to witness an exhibition of temper tantrum unparalleled in our shopping experiences.
At an adjacent cashier position we could hear a conversation happening and within a couple of minutes a female customer, in her forties I would estimate, started raising her voice in anger with the cashier. Her voice got louder and louder until she was yelling at the top of her lungs, “Get the manager! You are so stupid! I want the manager right now!”
I looked at my friend and jokingly said, “PMS. Definitely needs some chocolate.” Marcia said – as we continued to hear the woman yelling at the top of her lungs – “ I think she needs a box of chocolates!” Then she said, “No…what she needs is a double chocolate martini!”
We were joking with our cashier and she was laughing at our remarks. However, the manager and the cashier, who were contending with this irate woman, weren’t smiling. The stress on their faces just to keep from exploding at the attitude and verbal assault of this customer was obvious. While we were observing this temper tantrum we of course could hear every word said by this childish individual. She had brought back an item, like a doll’s dress that didn’t have a veil attached as others of the same type had. The outfit was soiled when she purchased it (so she said) and now she wanted a replacement. It was obvious that this woman was using intimidation to get what she wanted. The manager patiently listened to the tirade that went on for at least 5 minutes and said quietly, “No problem, just exchange the outfit.” The woman finally shut up, for a moment, - grabbed the replacement outfit and then continued her tirade. “You should fire this employee, she is stupid! I am also going to report you both!” She then walked very rapidly out of the store.
As this woman was walking out I turned to Marcia and said, “She doesn’t need a double chocolate martini…she needs a barrel of chocolate martini’s!” We all had a good laugh, then Marcia and I walked towards the cashier and manager who had endured most graciously the obnoxious verbiage of this very rude customer. We told them both how we had watched the whole scenario and really respected, appreciated their patient response and actions. We also jokingly mentioned how chocolate could have solved the woman’s attitude and that chocolate martini’s would have been even better. The manager looked at us smiling and asked, “Do you happen to have a few of those chocolate martinis handy? I could use a double right now!” By the time we left both the cashier and manager had smiles on their faces and that was good.
The reason I am sharing this recent experience with you is that it seems that courtesy, good manners and pleasant tone in dealing with critical situations like this one can make a big difference. The woman who created such a ruckus was doing it deliberately. For whatever reason she was filled with fear and that is what created within her the need to scream, be obnoxious and totally rude. I wonder how many times she’s used this form of intimidation to get what she wants. She is a perfect demonstration of the terrible two’s that we associate with children but she has never grown out of the childish pattern. She didn’t seem to realize that the staffs at this store have a wonderful attitude and would have been happy to exchange the item as she requested. I noticed the woman’s manner as she left the store and knew she could feel the attitudes of the other customers and employees who were watching her intensely – she knew that she had overstepped her bounds and was going to move out quickly so no one would pass judgment on her as she had on others.
Anyone can have a bad day. People can make mistakes and cause us frustration and anxiety if we let them. I have encountered immature people, such as this woman, during my life and they remind me of bullies who love to dominate, terrorize and create fear so they can manipulate getting what they want. Usually the best way to deal with them is to face them down with clarity, fearless intention and hold them accountable for their demeanor and actions. They don’t like this and then will avoid those environments, people and situations that won’t let them get away with this inappropriate behavior.
Civility is never out of style, contrary to some persons demonstrations, and the more we can support it by example then obnoxious individuals will have to go somewhere else to get satisfaction. . My hat is off to the cashier and manager who kept their cool, resolving a most unpleasant situation in a courteous, upstanding manner.
Donna Seebo
Have a fabulous day and should you have a rough moment always remember, chocolate is your friend and better yet, don’t forget the chocolate martini’s!
HOW TO INSTALL A HOME SECURITY SYSTEM
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1. Go to a secondhand store and buy a pair of men's used size 14-16 work boots.
2. Place them on your front porch, along with a copy of Guns & Ammo Magazine.
3. Put a few giant dog dishes next to the boots and magazines.
4. Leave a note on your door that reads:
"Bubba….., Bertha, Duke, Slim, & I went for more ammo and beer. Be back in an hour. Don't mess with the pit bulls; they attacked the mailman this morning and messed him up bad. I don't think Killer took part, but it was hard to tell from all the blood. Anyway, I locked all four of 'em in the house. Better wait outside. Be right back.
Cooter"
 The Recipe Box – Asian Shrimp Noodle Soup
Spring is just around the corner but cooler temperatures are still with us and I don’t know about you but a bowl of flavorful hot soup with crispy bread seems to fit just perfectly for hearty appetites that don’t want expanding waistlines. Here is a simple and flavorful recipe that is quick and easy to make. I hope that you’ll enjoy it.
Ingredients: 1 Tbs. oil, 2 Tbs. finely chopped peeled fresh ginger, 2 small ribs celery, diagonally cut into 1/4” thick slices, 1 small onion chopped, 1 small red or green pepper, cut into thin strips, 1/4 tsp. salt, 1 pkg. (32 oz.) Thai coconut curry broth, 4 oz. angel hair pasta, broken into thirds, 2 oz. snow peas, 3/4 cup halved crosswise, 1 cup frozen peas, 8 oz. large shrimp- peeled
deveined halved lengthwise.
Directions: In pot, heat oil over medium heat. Add ginger; cook, stirring, until fragrant and lightly browned. Add celery and onion; cook, stirring occasionally, until onion is translucent. Add pepper and salt; cook until pepper is just tender. Add broth and 2 cups water. Over medium-high heat, bring to boil; cook 15 minutes. Stir in pasta, snow peas and peas; cook until pasta is tender. Add shrimp-cook about 3 minutes. (Note) If desired you can substitute cooked chopped chicken for the shrimp.
Gold Nuggets
True Stories about Real People
Helen Keller is a woman we are all familiar with. Deaf and blind due to a disease she experienced tremendous anger and frustration because she couldn’t communicate. It was her teacher Anne Sullivan that she learned how to use her other senses and became an active participant in life on all levels. These are words from her autobiography that express well the greatness of the human spirit when it conquers what seems to be the impossible.
“Fate – silent, pitiless – bars the way. Fain would I question his imperious decree; for my heart is undisciplined and passionate, but my tongue will not utter the bitter, futile words that rise to my lips, and they fall back into my heart like unshed tears. Silence sits immense upon my soul. Then comes hope with a smile and whispers, ‘There is joy in self-forgetfulness.’ So I try to make the light in other people’s eyes my sun, the music in others’ ears my symphony, the smile on others’ lips my happiness.”
A Book in Progress -- Do you have a story to share?
I am putting together a book of paranormal experiences and if you have a personal story to share I would love to hear from you. I am in the process of collecting 100 stories from people dealing with clairvoyant experiences, dreams, out of body experiences and much more. If you would like to submit your personal story please send it via snail mail or email to 'The Donna Seebo Show', PO Box 97272, Tacoma, WA 98497 or donna@delphiinternational.com. Be sure to include your contact information with submission. Thank you.
Authors-Special Mention
Each month I interview 20-25 authors and they all have something special to contribute to making this world a better place. You can find out about each of them by going to www.bbsradio.com Station One and look up what is listed for the month and a brief summary of information for each publication. Here are my three picks for interesting reading for this month.
1. The Road Out of Hell, Anthony Flacco. This is a true story about a family, their secrets and a little boy whose life takes a course no one could ever imagine. Murder, deception and an unexpected outcome makes this story stand out and Anthony does an outstanding job with his investigative journalism.
2. The Wisdom Man, Camilla Chance. This is a true story about an Australian Aboriginal named Banjo. Camilla knew him personally and recorded his stories for the world to read.
3. The Healing Power of Chocolate, Cal Orey. Anything and everything you have ever wanted to know about chocolate is in this book. Fun, fascinating and interesting
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 Featured Guests February 2010
1….On the Street Where You Live, Julia Pilas
2….Life Changing Weight Loss, Dr. Kent Sasse
3….Cosmic Conversations, Stephan Martin
4….The ET Answer Book, Jim Moroney
5….Mass Casualties, Michael Anthony
8….Memoirs of a Fire Fighter & Paramedic, Bruce Zamelsky
9….Conversations with Richard Bandler, Owen Fitzpatrick
10…Elementary Love Styles, Dr. Craig Martin
11…The Road Out of Hell, Anthony Flacco
12…Make Up – Don’t Break Up, Dr. Bonnie Weil
15…The Affordability Factor, Dr. Williams
16…Help – My Kid is Driving Me Crazy, Dr. Swanson
17…A Gift In the Sunlight, Kay Mouradian
18…The Birth & Death of the Cool, Ted Gioia
19…The Full Plate Diet, Dr. Teresa Sherard
22…The Wisdom Man, Camilla Chance
23…The Healing Power of Chocolate, Cal Orey
24…Open Mike
25…T-Tapp, Teresa Tapp
26…Atom, Einstein & The Universe
Upcoming Broadcasts & Appearances
Seattle, Washington
March 5, 6 & 7 – The Pacific NW Women’s Show - www.nwwomenshow.com
This wonderful annual women’s show, held at the Quest Convention Center, is for women of all ages and an absolute must to attend. There are so many wonderful activities to participate in, fabulous vendors and lots of terrific speakers to empower you in a multitude of ways. Mark you calendar now for this dynamic event, call your friends and make it a weekend to remember of fun, shopping and more fun.
I will be in booth #407 and will be available for mini-consultations, in addition to having a fabulous selection of books, CD’s and even some videos.
On Friday, March 5th, I will be presenting a forum of 6 speakers at the’ Girl Talk’ Stage.
The first hour will start at 1:00pm and will be dedicated to financial health - (Speakers: Marcia Azizi & Gayle Gregory).
The second hour starting at2:00pm will be about energy healing and wellness – (Speakers:Dorothea Hover-Kramer & Stephanie Eldringhoff).
The final hour starting at 3:00pm will be oriented towards animals and their care – (Speakers:Megan Ayrault & JoAnn Turnbull). The speakers are listed individually on the NW Women’s Show website – The Girl Talk Stage Section – check there for additional information.
Do stop by and say ‘Hello’…I look forward to seeing you there.
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Broadcast – ‘Live’ – with Monique Chapman “Raise Your Intuition IQ”, March 9th, 6:00pm, www.AchieveRadio.com or
www.moniquechapman.com/radio.htm and click on the “Click here” button
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Anchorage and Fairbanks, Alaska
The week of April 8th – 2010 is tentatively being scheduled. More details in the next newsletter.
Chinese Feng Shui Horoscope
· Take a moment to take this test. If you are honest this tells the truth, it’s pretty accurate.
· Write your answers on a piece of paper. Further down in this newsletter you’ll find out your horoscope for 2010.
1. Which is your favorite color: Red, Black, Blue Green or Yellow?
2. What is your first initial?
3. What is your month of birth?
4. Which color do you like more – black or white?
5. What is the name of a person that is the same sex as you?
6. What is your favorite number?
7. Do you like California or Florida more?
8. Do like a lake or the ocean more?
9. Write down a wish (a realistic one).
When you are done scroll down to find out your answers. Don’t cheat and look at the answers first!
Glyconutrients ~ Tools for Wellness
There are few products that I choose to endorse however, Glyconutrients I firmly believe in. The benefits that have enabled me, my husband and friends to enjoy a greater state of health are fabulous. I invite you to visit my website http://www.delphiinternational/.com, touch the Glyconutrients button and read the information that I have posted there. This is all about nutrition and living a quality life with joy, vitality and maintaining wellness. You can also check another website of www.mannapages.com/donnaseebo. Enter that address into the address box on your computer screen. Do not Google it as it won't pop up if you do. If you would like to find out more just give me a call @ 253.582.5604 or 800.872.8852.
By the way, if you are interested in trimming down after the holidays give me a call. I have a glyconutrient product that enables one to slip out of those excess pounds, losing fat not muscle. It is working for me and if you are interested let me know. Between this food product and T-Tapp I am doing fabulously and so can you.
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Special Comments
A special’ thank you’ to the many people who join me weekdays to hear ‘The Donna Seebo Show’ from around the country and the world. Your emails, calls and wonderful letters make my day. It is always a joy to share the talents and information from people and other sources that can make our lives better. Should you have recipes, ideas and/or information you think my listeners might be interested in, please email the information to me. Due to the tremendous amount of material received, I cannot promise that I will use it on my show but I do review everything that is sent.
Be sure to let your friends know that they can hear the show via the Internet ‘live’ from anywhere in the world on www.BBSRadio.com Station One, 3:00pm to 4:00pm, Pacific Time.
For authors who are interested in being interviewed on my program, please send a copy of your book/CD/audio tape publication along with your press kit to the address noted below. All materials are reviewed for content and if accepted, you will be called to schedule a date for an interview. Currently my interviews are booked two to three months in advance. It is always advisable to follow up with a phone call to be sure that your materials are received by my office.
You are always welcome to share this newsletter and if you have someone who would like to be added to the subscriber list, just send his/her name and email address to donna@delphiinternational.com. Past newsletters are archived on my website, and you are welcome to review them at any time. If you desire to be deleted from the mailing just type unsubscribe in subject line.
For scheduling of private appointments (by telephone or in-person), information on gift certificates, speaking engagements, private parties, classes, etc., please contact my office at the telephone number listed at the bottom of this newsletter.
Do you know of children between the ages of 3 to 10 who love to read? Then you’ll want to order “God’s Kiss” my award winning illustrated book and audio tape. Just call my office and I will be delighted to personalize the book for that special child. See contact information below.
Have a magnificent day and remember….”You are the Master of your Fate, the Captain of your Soul”.
Donna Seebo, International Mental Practitioner/Psychic, Counselor, Award Winning Author, Speaker, Teacher, Radio/Television Personality and Minister
Host of “The Donna Seebo Show” heard weekdays on www.BBSRadio.com, Station One, 3:00pm to 4:00pm,
(Programs archived on www.BBSRadio.com)
POB 97272, Tacoma, WA 98497-0272 ---- (253) 582-5604 or (800) 872-8852
donna@delphiinternational.com www.delphiinternational.com
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Happy Valentine's Day to you All